24 thoughts on “The man that finds peace in being single #shorts”

  1. I don't know that i would call it peace. More of coming to terms with the greater percentage of available women are more trouble than they are worth. Similar to casinos. You play, hoping you'll win. Right when things look good, you're reminded the game is fixed and the only luck you have is breaking even

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  2. In response to your video, and many others like it, I am calling for a full-scale MEN'S LIBERATION MOVEMENT. To get on board, you must do 3 things:

    GET A VASECTOMY. If you are 18 or over, then get this done as soon as possible. This way you can enjoy being intimate with a woman without the fear of pregnancy.

    STAY SINGLE. If you are not married, or cohabitating, then stand your ground and stay as you are.

    REJECT ALL DOUBLE STANDARDS, GENDER STEREOTYPES, and GENDER ROLE EXPECTATIONS that are placed on men, and refuse to live by them. Remember, as men, we are only LEGALLY required to obey one gender role expectation, registering with Selective Service (military draft registration)

    I have decided to call this movement "OPERATION INDIAN OUTLAW" (named after a song by Tim McGraw). My challenge to all men is: Do you have the strength and the courage to join me and get on board with this movement? I pray that God helps you to do so…LET'S ROLL.

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  3. So how do you find peace again after losing someone you adored that you gave 23 years of your life to? My wife died three and a half years ago. We had a really good run. I would love to find that again, but I am realizing that it may not be out there for me. I have focused on developing myself and my kids, but damn it's lonely.

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  4. A lot of men find peace in being single. Modern men should follow my example by staying SINGLE and becoming STERILE. I have no wife, no kids, no pets, and no regrets. I have reached the peak of SELF-ACTUALIZATION. But lest you think I'm crazy (like my name suggests), PLEASE CONSIDER THE FOLLOWING:

    FACTS

    – 50% of all marriages end in divorce.

    – 80% of all divorces are initiated by women.

    – Only 10% of divorced fathers get primary custody of their children

    (thanks to the family court system).

    – Child Support = $600/month (often more).

    – Vasectomy = $600/once (often less).

    – There are over 7 billion people in the world, most of whom are impoverished and/or

    spiritually misguided (Do we really need to make any more?).

    – More vasectomies = fewer abortions.

    – Many women don't treat men the way that they want men to treat them

    (i.e. these women don't live by the "Golden Rule").

    – Many women keep double standards. They place demands and expectations on men

    that they don't want men to place on them.

    – In a divorce, men can expect to lose at least half of everything they own, and have

    worked for.

    – Many divorced fathers have to fight like hell in order to stay connected to their children

    (thanks to evil, selfish, cruel, hateful, vindictive ex-wives).

    – Nowadays, each year more men are victims of domestic violence than women.

    Males: 4.2 million; Females: 3.5 million.

    This doesn't even include the emotional abuse that women inflict on men.

    – If they commit adultery, or abuse their husbands, wives are rarely held accountable for

    the evil that they do.

    – After divorce, many men experience severe depression, and sometimes suicide.

    CONCLUSIONS

    – If you are a man, then GET A VASECTOMY and STAY SINGLE. It is the most intelligent,

    logical, rational, responsible, and healthy decision that a man can make. The belief that

    says, "If you meet the right woman, everything will work out fine", is BOGUS. So forget

    all the sentimental hogwash about getting married and having children.

    – This DOESN'T mean that we should hate women. On the contrary, we should love

    women. And as men, we should treat women the same way that we want women to

    treat us in return, and we should not place any demands or expectations on women

    that we don't want women to place on us.

    – This DOESN'T mean that we should avoid making female friends; avoid romantic

    relations; avoid intimacy; avoid being in love, or avoid having a steady sweetheart.

    – It only means that we should avoid reproduction, marriage, and cohabitation.

    – If a woman wants children, rather than making babies and bleeding off of men for

    financial support; there are ways in which she can channel her maternal energies that

    are more positive and less selfish. These include: working at a children's hospital, or a

    daycare center; working with special needs children; counseling men who are going

    through, or recovering from, a painful divorce; offering aid to disabled veterans, or

    veterans suffering from post-traumatic stress. I am sure that all of these people would

    greatly appreciate her maternal love, her compassion, and her nurturance.

    – If a man wants to have children, rather than making babies and burning himself out on

    the provider/protector role; there are ways in which he can manifest his fatherly

    desires in ways that are more constructive and beneficial to his community, and to

    himself. These include: getting involved with mentoring programs for boys;

    participating in athletic programs for boys; entering the ministry; or becoming

    elementary school teachers. According to Dr. Warren Farrell, boys would benefit greatly

    from having more school teachers who are men.

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  5. Don’t forget the divorce rates that women initiate 80% of the time. Don’t forget the divorce laws and family courts that are very gynocentric. And don’t forget that feminism – which created #MeToo, social media, single mothers, abstinence until marriage are all responsible for the downfall of the traditional family. I found peace and salvation through my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ after checking out of perusing women entirely. Proverbs 21:19. Live a life of celibacy and him with God.

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  6. True.. My last relationship was very bad for me… Now many years single and don't have problems anymore

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  7. True af only thing is I have sworn them off I won’t jepedize being distracted or disrespected ever again solitude is the true power forever.

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  8. Dear Emily, thank you for putting out this video showing why men are better off being single. I totally agree with what you are saying single and having peace of mind. With due respect, I PUT FORTH MY COMMENTARY ON WHY MEN SHOULD REMAIN SINGLE:

    Benjamin Franklin once said, "Those who will trade freedom for security, will eventually end up with neither." There are men who have been cunningly deceived into believing that marriage will bring a sense of security; a secured lifetime companion, a secured lifetime lover, and a secured lifetime helpmate. Thus, they renounce their freedom through marriage or monogamous relationships. These men often end up experiencing tragedy and disaster. On the other hand, there are a lot of men who have wised up, and realize that modern marriage is a complete disgrace. These men, like me, have firmly resolved to cling tenaciously to their freedom; and to cherish it, protect it, and defend it for the rest of their lives.

    Nowadays, in America, it is better for men to remain single, than to get married and reproduce. For men, marriage and child-rearing have become shackles, chains, and slavery; where women are the slave drivers. Most modern wives/girlfriends, in this country, refuse to share EQUALLY in the conjugal duties of marriage; be it financial responsibilities or domestic responsibilities. Women are allowed to be liberated and free to act however they please; while men are forced to carry the cross of traditional masculine gender roles, often ending up nailed to that cross. In marriage/relationships, everything is centered on making the woman happy, regardless of how miserable the man feels. Modern wives, in turn, show very little affection, love, respect, or appreciation to their husbands. Even sex becomes just another job for men to do, in order to please their women. What's more, most modern men can handle their own domestic duties, such as cooking and cleaning. Above all, women and society show almost no appreciation to husbands and fathers, for all the hard work, the sacrifice, and the love, that they show their wives and families. So nowadays, WHAT BENEFIT IS MARRIAGE? For men, marriage has no benefits whatsoever; only stress, fatigue, discouragement, disappointment, despair; and feeling unloved as well as unappreciated. From what I've seen, most modern females (between the ages of 18-34) are selfish, greedy, untrustworthy, irresponsible, disrespectful, hateful, cruel, and basically evil. Their yearning for marriage is not rooted in love, but in a selfish desire to fulfill their feminine identity. Hence, the real problem, in this country, is not that there are no good men; the problem is that there are so few good women (between the ages of 18-34).

    To make matters worse, 50% of marriages end in divorce, with women initiating 80% of divorces. Even worse, if wives commit adultery, or abuse their husbands, they are usually not held accountable for the evil that they do. Many females will use their poisonous tongues, during and after marriage, to kill a man's reputation through slander, gossip, and lies. Worst of all, many ex-wives will deprive fathers and children of having healthy relationships by keeping fathers from having contact with their children. Any female who compels a man to marry her against his will (or who "baby traps" a man), is not acting out of love and devotion. She is acting out of selfishness, greed, manipulation, codependency, insecurity, cruelty, and possibly misandry. My friends, don't let any female deceive you by telling you that having a child together will bring "meaning" to the relationship. IT WON'T! It will only put the relationship to test. These females will often use your children as a tool for manipulation against you. I have seen many good-hearted men have their lives destroyed by evil women who commit such despicable acts. Worst of all, these females rarely have any remorse for the cruelty, the sins, and the evil that they commit. All these things destroy a man's life!

    Therefore, DON'T BLAME MEN FOR NOT WANTING TO GET MARRIED OR BE IN A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP.

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  11. And women wonder why LTR men disassociate with their partner. He realized all relationships are toxic and he's made peace with the fact that he's better off alone together.

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  19. Hmmm 14 and a half years ago. Now I'm looking but not like it used to be. Only want a good woman not a slut. Or an alphabet lover or hateful just a good woman

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  20. My wife died several years ago. If my wife was still alive, I still would be with her. But I don't want to go back to dating and deal with the games some woman play. I understand not all women are bad, but I dealt with so many crazy women that I rather keep the peace I have found. .

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  22. So scary how accurate she is with everything! This women is really laying down the truth! May her and her family continue to stay blessed for years to come!

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