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In this week’s video, I’m asked what my “why” is—what motivates me to keep doing what I do. And my answer often comes as a surprise: to help people feel less alone.
Just because many single people feel lonely doesn’t mean the two need to go hand in hand.
I sometimes get tired of the “peak performance” rhetoric where everything is about productivity at the highest level. It devalues the importance of just feeling okay and connected and loved, especially during moments of pain or loneliness.
It’s my hope that today’s video encourages you and helps you realize that you’re not alone. If we can just make this world a little bit less lonely for each other, we can literally save lives.
Here for you,
Matthew x
P.S. Sometimes even the smallest gestures can make a huge difference. I’d love it if you left me a comment letting me know something someone did for you that made you feel less lonely or more connected
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I always enjoy hearing your perspective. However, I feel like I have never been seen by anyone. Life is awfully lonely.
I got married at 24. Thought I had the most blissful married life. No kids though, by choice. And then suddenly my husband drops the bombshell on me that he can't stand me anymore. After 12 years. I'm newly and unexpectedly single. At 37.
oh.. now I'm crying. Thank you for being so genuine and such a lovely person and doing such important and valuable work. God bless you! I've been single for 14 years, and before that I only had destructive relationships. I was too broken from my past (a childhood filled with abuse of all kinds and more abuse in my early adult years) to be able to attract a healthy man. I needed many years of therapy to heal enough to be able to function and believe I'm worthy of love. But unfortunately it's not that easy to find someone when you have the baggage I have (also struggling financially despite having a job as a result of all those years struggling to find help and healing). And now I feel too needy to be able to find someone. I'm hurting so badly from touch-starvation and I've given up on all the depressing dating apps. And I'm at the age where I'm as women has become almost totally invisible to men. 🙁 So I'm not able to get eye contact enough to even flirt with anyone. And I'm too shy to be more upfront. So I think I'll probably will die without ever have felt how it is to have a good relationship with a man.
I think the chance of me ever meeting someone who could be openminded and brave enough is very, very slim. And most days I don't even have the strength to dream.. But sometimes I watch your videos and they sort of give a glimps of hope. (I guess I can't really let the dream go..) About mankind anyway. (All kinds of relationships are important, and your knowledge about these things help me see how to relate better to others in many ways.) And they give perspective, and helps me see how even younger people with less baggage struggle with finding real connections and good relationships. (I really do believe that the only way the world can change to a better place is by one loving relationship and conversation/meeting at a time.) Again- GOD BLESS YOU! Your work is important. I didn't know the reason behind it until this video, but now it all makes sense.
F# life…..its fake … It looks good but in reality its not ..life is like a woman wearing makeup…she looks pretty and sexy and you want to have it and when you have it it shows you the real face the face withoit make up the problems the nugging the bs …yep …thats life…dont count on it just take what you need from it and leave the rest cuz its just gonna cause you more problems.
I am so lonely and sad, i know this comment wouldn't help a thing but it feels nice to say it or rather write it down than walking around like i came to see off people in this world…i have people telling me to go out and meet people like i don't know that is possible but i just can't for lots of reasons, I am walking on an ocean of happiness i just can't baptize myself in
I just came back from a party with all couples and I'm 9 years single. I'm buzzed anc crying.
Hard place to be when u the only single one in your friends . Lonely so u just shh coz doesn’t make sense to them .
I'm a single guy in my 30s with high functioning autism – there was nothing more of a gut punch to me than every woman throughout my life I decided to pursue telling me "I only see you as a friend." :/ it definitely has made me feel unlovable at times. Pretty much to the point where I'm about to wait for a woman to make the first move on me, that way I know she's actually interested.
I"ve been alone over 35 years. If I live another 35 years I plan to remain alone for those 35 years.
Mr. Lonely comes to visit about every 4 months, but he usually stays for less than a week.
I'd rather be alone all day and night for decades than be in a house with someone who makes me feel lonely 24, 7, 365.
Life has NEVER felt "amazing" and I'm convinced it never will.
I saw the direction the world was going in- individualism, porn, dating apps, red pill movement , woke culture, political divide, hyper sexual culture — on and on…. I just threw myself into my work, found an altruistic career , make art try to create more than I consume — and I moved to a place that its safe to take long walks and the sun shines all the time … and there are people all around.
Pour into yourself and others and embrace freedom.
Like all things you do what you gotta do until you do what you want to do.
Thank you, Matthew, for what you wonderfully said here in this video. Amen. As a 52-year-old man, living in Rio in a bad marriage to know that others feel that loneliness really helps. God bless you!
Iam 51years old mother of one grown up daughter and I've been single all my like and i can say is so hard so lonely life ,no one to tell you he loves you no one to hug you and lean on life is so worthless living i wonder why i cannot find someone to love me
I so agree with what your saying I’m going through this
I don’t know why but I feel empty and lonely sadness and I’m grateful for this thanks
Am still single it hurts so much i hate it
I think even friends can make me feel lonely
Self stroking garbage
Thank you, may God bless you all and everyone. ❤
Unbearable is right